Friday, February 6, 2015

Homestay, Homesite, Homesick


Home is where the heart is...

They opened their hearts and their home to me.   Me, this stranger from America who would spend an entire month living with a Ugandan family in Bushenyi while I studied Runyankore, the local language of the southwest, with five other Peace Corps trainees. My homestay family welcomed me, fed me, helped me study, laughed at my cultural mistakes, always protected me and made me a member of their family.  The day before I left, I was even given my Runyankore name, “Natukunda”, God loves us.



The month passed quickly and it was time to return to Kampala to be sworn in as an official Peace Corps Volunteer. On the day I had to leave, Mamma Rhoda had a gift for me.  Rhoda is 67 years old and doesn’t speak English and we struggled to communicate every day. She loved me like a daughter and I longed for a heartfelt conversation. Her gift on my last morning with her was a song.  She sat me down and sang a beautiful hymn in Runyankore.  The lyrics meant God will protect me and guide me back to them. I’ll remember that moment forever and how music and tears and love filled that room.  


I walked away from the first place I could call home since I came to Uganda in November and in less than a week I walked into my new home, the one I’ll live in during my two years of service as a Peace Corps Volunteer.  The cleaning, the shopping for supplies, and the settling in took days and days and still continues but I’m slowly turning this modest house into my home and I can FINALLY UNPACK my suitcases. I’m learning to coexist with the colony of bats in my ceiling, (actually I want them gone ASAP) the geckos on the walls and the ever-present spiders. Yes, this is my home and I am grateful for the electricity, running water, indoor toilet (YAY!) and the welcoming community I am now a part of.  


Yet, now that I am finally in my very own home, ironically homesickness is hitting hard.  I suddenly have free time again; a blessing and a curse. Too much time to think.  So to my family and friends back home...I love you and miss you very much.  All the new memories that fill this home will be shared with you.  And ya know, Uganda isn’t really that far away...hint, hint. Come make some memories with me!

Home is where the heart is...

My heart is also right behind these gates for the next two years at my school, Kibingo Primary.  

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